Clinical psychology · San Diego, California

Do you feel like somethingin your life is out of alignment?

You may know something needs to change without knowing where to begin. Therapy can be a place to listen inward, understand what shaped you, and move toward a life that feels more fully your own.

Ellie Wheeler, Psy.D., smiling in her San Diego therapy office
Ellie Wheeler, Psy.D.Clinical Psychologist

A place to realign

You don’t need to become someone new.
You may need room to hear yourself again.

As a San Diego psychologist, Ellie offers thoughtful, collaborative therapy for the moments when old ways of coping no longer fit, and something more honest is asking to emerge.

What I help with

Support for what feels
tender, stuck, or changing.

We can begin with what is most present. You do not need a perfect explanation for what you are feeling.

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Trauma

Trauma can leave you braced for danger, whether it came from one experience or unfolded over time. Trauma therapy offers a steady place to understand these patterns, build a sense of safety, and reconnect with parts of yourself that had to go quiet.

Learn about trauma therapy
02

OCD

Intrusive thoughts and compulsions can make your world feel painfully small. OCD therapy helps you relate differently to uncertainty, loosen the cycle, and make more room for the life you value.

How ERP can help
03

Identity development

Sometimes the roles, expectations, and identities we’ve carried can make it difficult to know what truly feels like you. Together, we can explore your identity, including gender, sexuality, values, and purpose, with curiosity and create a life that feels more authentic to who you are.

Begin the conversation
04

Life transitions

Relationship endings, disconnection, recovery, starting college, graduate school, or university, and other major changes can unsettle your sense of self. Therapy creates space to grieve what is ending, find your footing, and move forward by your own values.

Find support through change

How I work

Depth and direction,
held together.

Therapy is tailored to you. Ellie integrates approaches that make room for your history, your values, and the concrete patterns keeping you from feeling aligned within.

Psychodynamic Therapy

We notice how earlier relationships and experiences live in the present, bringing the unseen into view so you can respond with greater freedom.

Understand the roots

Acceptance & Commitment Therapy

ACT helps you make room for difficult inner experiences while choosing actions grounded in what matters most to you.

Live by your values

Exposure & Response Prevention

ERP is a proven approach for OCD that helps you practice meeting uncertainty without returning to compulsions.

Expand your life
San Diego · California

Services

Therapy that meets you
where you are.

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Individual therapy

One-to-one psychotherapy shaped around your needs, pace, and hopes for change.

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In-person in San Diego

A private, calming space for therapy in San Diego and the surrounding area.

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Telehealth across California

Secure video sessions for clients located anywhere in California.

Ellie Wheeler, Psy.D., seated in her San Diego therapy officeClinical Psychologist · San Diego, CA

Meet Ellie

Warm, curious,
and deeply attentive.

I believe you make sense in the context of what you have lived through.

My role is not to tell you who to be. It is to offer a thoughtful relationship where we can understand what is happening beneath the surface, loosen what no longer serves you, and help your outer life feel more aligned with your inner one.

I work especially well with young adults, college-age individuals, and people navigating trauma, OCD, anxiety, depression, recovery, identity exploration, or other seasons of profound change.

More about me
“Therapy can be both a place of refuge and a place where new ways of living begin.”

A gentle first step

Let’s see if this
feels like a fit.

A free consultation is a brief, low-pressure conversation. You can share what brings you here, ask questions about therapy, and get a sense of what it might be like to work together.

No commitment.
Just a human conversation.

Prefer to talk? Call (619) 304-9955.

Private and pressure-free. Ellie will reply within 1 to 2 business days.

Fees & insurance

Rates

Straightforward pricing, shared up front, so cost is never the reason you hesitate to reach out.

Complimentary consultation15 minutes
Free
Individual therapy session55 minutes
$250

Insurance

Aligned Within will be accepting coverage from these providers soon.

  • AetnaFrom October 29
  • United HealthcareComing soon
  • Blue Shield of CaliforniaComing soon
  • Blue Promise California (Medical)Coming soon

Common questions

A little clarity
before we begin.

View the full FAQ
How do I know if therapy is right for me?

You do not need to be in crisis or have everything figured out. If something feels painful, repetitive, or out of alignment, a consultation can help you decide whether therapy feels useful now.

Do you offer in-person and online sessions?

Yes. Ellie offers in-person therapy in San Diego and secure telehealth appointments for clients located throughout California.

Do you accept insurance?

Aligned Within is a private practice and is currently private-pay. Insurance coverage is being added, beginning with Aetna. You can see each provider and its current status under Fees & Insurance. In the meantime, a superbill may be available for possible out-of-network reimbursement. Coverage varies, so checking directly with your plan is recommended.